I think that's the secret to winning a girl, now apparently 
decreased my chances. Looking back, as I try to analyze where 
it started for me, I find that my earliest recollection of 
noticing a man's philtrum was when I was a very young girl, maybe 
5-6 years old. Your lover might even try to push you towards these things, despairing that s/he can't give you even the most basic 
things any human could. You have to be willing to face them together and never give up.
I've noticed that if you point out a lover from 
the astral realm could give them things you never do, the reaction is one of pure horror.
No one calls you pervert, if you would like to watch foot fetish drama, or perhaps a 
solo using some oil and cream. Perhaps, like many other folks, you also like to watch a sexy chick excitingly and playfully 
strip and pleasure herself on cam specially for you.